Consent is a conversation
A match, message or previous meeting is not consent. Ask, listen and respect a change of mind. You never owe anyone an explanation for stopping.
Open-minded.
Clear boundaries.
You deserve to feel comfortable. Privacy, consent and the freedom to stop are part of every connection.
Your privacy is yours
Use a broad area rather than your home address. Share identifying details only when you choose. Private photos require permission, but no website can prevent a recipient taking a screenshot.
Meet on your terms
Choose a setting you feel comfortable with, arrange your own way home and consider telling someone you trust. Responsibility for harm always lies with the person causing it.
Know what a badge means
An 18+ check confirms an age-check result for each member. It is not a guarantee of character, consent, identity authenticity in every situation, or personal safety.
A thoughtful hello
You choose whether to reply. You can mute or block a conversation at any time. Paying will never let someone bypass your boundaries or blocks.
Spot a scam
Be cautious of money requests, investment pitches, pressure or unexpected verification links. Never share a one-time security code. You can report a concern without confronting anyone.
Report, block, or both
Use Report on a profile or message. Message reports attach context automatically. Blocking stops new contact and hides linked profiles. Follow your report in Your reports.
When something serious happens
Threats, suspected minors, non-consensual images and exploitation go to the urgent review queue. Do not download or redistribute suspected illegal material. This service is not an emergency response service.
If there is immediate danger
In the UK, call 999 for an emergency. If you cannot speak, follow the operator’s instructions. For other concerns, use local police or an appropriate specialist support service.
After a report
A reviewer examines the relevant evidence, records a decision and sends an outcome where appropriate. Restrictions can be appealed through Help & support. We do not publish retaliation scores.